Men are from Mars Women are from Venus

I once dated a guy, who couldn't see how injecting his penis, ball deep into me was cheating...

Is this unrequited love/lust or have we crossed boundaries virtually over our daily 4 hour chat on microsoft teams?

How far are you willing to go with me? How far will you allow me to go with you?

I've got to ask two questions:

1) What do you consider cheating?
2) What are we?