The first one

Suddenly single during first lockdown, I had not had a lover in a long time, but i had to be very discreet, dating apps were not an option.

My married friend, a really cool gal, told me to look around my single male friends, seek for a friend with benefits kind of idea.

I had one, one person, a friend, who would be up for benefits without engaging in a relationship.

I called him, we talked openly, he understood where I was coming from. We’ve known each for other many years, so he invited me over.
And i spent the weekend the way a woman should: hosted as a friend and spoiled as a lover.

With this one friend, everything was just right: body, mindset, ways, flat, we even like the same music, and we are both borderline sexually. we both had a friendship epiphany, we knew each other at a unique level as friends.

And we are here for each other. Sometime we enjoy our new benefits, sometimes we don’t, just as good friends.

And since him, even thanks to him in a way, I’ve made few friends in between and during lockdowns.  

He was only the first one.