So after being blue ticked for a week, I heard from him after Christmas. Its all back to normal.
There was a lesson for me in this - silence from someone doesn’t mean I have done something wrong to them, especially early on. This is something I am still learning - to not drive myself crazy with worst case scenarios.
This was also the first time I didn’t react to that silence. I spoke to my lovely girlfriends (and the universe through your page) and I carried on with my life. I am grateful to you, my girlies and the universe for restoring faith.
Who knows where this will go but for now we both are encouraging each other to better ourselves and to a better 2021!